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Submitted by: Chellie Campbell

I am definitely going to take a course on time managementjust as soon as I can work it into my schedule.Louis E. Boone

One of the benefits of our fast-moving, information-saturated, technology-enhanced lives today is the wide variety of choices we are offered. Its wonderful to have the freedom to choose where well live, what work well do, what friends well have. This is also a major cause of stress. We want to do everything, be everyone, live all our lifetimes in this one. Theres so much we could doif only we had more time, more energy! Frantic to live up to our potential, we run through our lives like were trying to jump on a moving train. Then were scared weve chosen the wrong train, so we keep jumping on and off, changing trains at every station.

In my hunger for experience and fear of missing out on something, I always seemed to take on too much. As a high school senior, I was Pep Chairman, Secretary of Girls League, Worthy Advisor of Rainbow Girls, and the lead in the school play all at the same time. During one period in college, I performed in a semi-professional dance company, choreographed and appeared in a campus main stage production, and rehearsed a readers theater production from midnight until four A.M. because that was the only time I was available. Meanwhile I carried a full schedule of classes.

The over-commitment habit continued in my professional life as I juggled building a business with community service and holding board positions in organizations. It seemed I couldnt join an organization without being president or vice-president, often holding board positions in more than one organization at the same time.

But as I hurried through my life, with no time for reflection or thought, once in a while I would meet a business owner who was calm. They would smile serenely and say they used to be like me. But after building their businesses, working constant eighty-hour weeks, they finally sold their businesses and became consultants, working out of their homes. I didnt understand why on earth they would want to work at home. But every so often, I noticed these tranquil people at the corners of my life.

Then one day my frantic life began to fall apart, like a plate-twirling circus performer who put too many plates in the air at once only to see them all crash in pieces on the ground. The crash seemed awful at the time, but in actuality what a gift it was! As I sorted through the wreckage, I picked back up only the valuable pieces. I cleared space in my life for reflection, meditation, friendships, a slower pace of work. I simplified my life to contain only those things I most cherished. I became a consultant working out of my home.

Now, I take time to be happy and to know that I am. And I have no intention of living up to my potential.

You dont have to, either. Just because you can doesnt mean you must.

Todays Affirmation: I now claim and celebrate the abundance of my life!

Copyright Chellie Campbell. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED.

About the Author: Chellie Campbell is the creator of the popular Financial Stress Reduction Workshops, and the author of The Wealthy Spirit and Zero to Zillionaire, both published by Sourcebooks, Inc. She is one of Marci Shimoff’s Happy 100 in her current NYT bestseller Happy for No Reason and contributed stories to Jack Canfields recent books Youve Got to Read This Book! and Life Lessons from Chicken Soup for the Soul. She is prominently quoted as a financial expert in The Los Angeles Times, Pink, Good Housekeeping, Lifetime, Essence, Womans World and more than 35 popular books. For more information, visit her web site

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